“Don’t just get in to fit in.”
We often seek identity, comfort, love, validation, and self-worth by allowing ourselves to find it in social circles, something, or someone. All of them are a quick fix drug of choice until you hit the wall. You will never find fulfillment or pure, unadulterated joy by these means. Take time to work on you and your heart. Figure out who you are first, then put that knew found knowledge and way of being into practice. If you’re not happy with yourself by yourself, you will never find it outside yourself, nor will you ever make someone else happy.